The End

The end.

I’ve never sought out to begin a story with “the end”, but today I want to.  Why?  Because I think that we too easily buy into the myth of “forever” and are blind to the beauty and purpose of endings.

Somehow, we have come to deeply believe that if it’s good, it will last forever.  We could place the blame in a myriad of places… and to be fair, lots of good things do last a long time and we like that.  Think marriages, think family, think careers, think institutions and businesses and faiths that last not one lifetime but generations of lifetimes.  All these things and more lead us to believe that all good things last forever.

What an extreme and preposterous statement.

Why?  Guys, I have a not-so-secret secret to tell: WE LIVE IN A MORTAL WORLD.  Mortal, as in death, as in end, as in not forever.  Now, before you throw the Jesus card at me, let me reassure you that the Jesus card is already at play on the table.  I know it’s there.  I know that he and all his unequivocal attributes are greater than time itself and have no beginning or end.  I know.  But *cough cough* we aren’t Jesus.   Instead, we are currently residents of an earth that since the Fall has been cursed with mortality. 

But I want to go out on a limb and say that not all endings are bad.  Even God, who, after 6 staggering days of impressive creativity and imagination, stopped and said that it was good.  And then He rested, an ending if I ever heard one. 

So why do we cling on to some things that clearly need to gracefully come to an end?  Like grade school, or a bad job, or a shrinking church.  Why does the young woman strive to stay with that guy even though he abused her?  Why does the boy stick with his friends even though they are doing things he doesn’t approve of?  Why does the organization leader push and push to keep a program going because it “used to be good” but now is ineffective and disappointing?  Why does the mother cling too tightly to times when her children were small and not let them go and make their own way?  Why does the middle-aged man long for the “good ol’ days” and miss the good things in his life now?  Why do we live in the past?

Because I think we are afraid of the many unknowns that lie ahead of us.  We like the past because we lived through it and it makes sense to us now.  Why do you think the Israelites wanted to go back to Egypt?  40 years of desert dunes and rocky paths of the wilderness stood before them, and all they could remember were the “good times when at least they had food in Egypt”.  But clearly the past wasn’t always grand and easy.  Remember those times when we didn’t know what was going to happen and we worried or were afraid?

Today, I want to give us all a little inspiration to be brave, especially in the moments when the future looks scary.  For those moments that seem dark or unsafe, cling to the promise that our Lord, our Immanuel, is with you every step of the way.  When you get laid off from work, don’t give in to despair or cling to memories of the good ol’ days; instead, use it as motivation to move forward and find that next job, even if it’s different from what you were expecting.  When you’ve been diagnosed with a life-long illness or condition, don’t crave the days when your body was “perfect”; instead, look for ways to embrace your new self and look forward to the day when God will make your body like new.  When your car breaks down, or you fail a test, or a friend moves away, or the bills just keep coming in, don’t cry out for Egypt.  Cry out for God and take that next brave step forward, trusting Him to guide you. 

I don’t want us to fear the future, not when we know God is already there, waiting for us.  The past had good times, the future will too.  There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind (C.S. Lewis). 

Do you believe it?

Stay tuned!